The Word Is

Vol. 2, Issue 1, 2024

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From Gordon Botting, DrPH, CHES

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Budget Bloopers

Two of America’s favorite television programs over the years have been “Candid Camera” and “America’s Funniest Home Videos”. We laugh and sometimes cry as we watch people do the silliest and dumbest things, such as underestimating their speed and crashing into a wall or window, or overestimating their ability to stand on a narrow wall and falling into the mud puddle below. Other times it is that unexpected moment when a roof caves in and before they know it, they’re heading earthward, or one moment they are going in one direction and suddenly find themselves going in the opposite direction, with unanticipated and unexpected consequences.
 
We love to laugh at the blunders and slip ups of other people because we often see ourselves in similar situations.  In the financial world of household money management, similar gaffes happen too often and they are no laughing or crying matter.  To avoid such oversights and missteps, it pays large fiscal dividends to have a household budget, a well-oiled financial plan.  The price you pay for failing to develop a well defined household budget is a series of budget bloopers.

Income Bloopers

The biggest budget blooper on the income side of a household budget is that many individuals overestimate their income when developing their financial plan. They add in hoped for cost of living raises, tax refunds, annual bonuses and salary increases. When you write down your income on the positive side of the ledger, make sure it reflects exactly what you receive after the appropriate state and federal government taxes have been extracted.  It is much simpler to increase your budget when that extra windfall comes, rather than having to reduce line items and the bottom line because your income fell short.

Expense Bloopers

There are a number of items that are true budget bloopers on the expense side of the average family budget. These would include the following:
 
1.  Leaving out major expenses, such as vehicle, or house insurance or property taxes.  It’s easy to understand why these are often forgotten because they are not regular monthly expenses and may be billed only once or twice a year.  
 
2.  Forgetting to include the following line items that practically every family needs: birthday, wedding, and other gifts.
 
3.  Overlooking these three words, “maintenance, maintenance, maintenance,” when making up your household budget. From the day you purchased your first home, you are constantly faced with maintenance and repairs. They are not necessarily large items, but they do add up. Like a musical ditty: “it’s a sprinkler head here, a picture hook there, a few nails there, and spots of paint everywhere.” Aside from the cost of gasoline, vehicles have a way of constantly draining dollars from your wallet.
 
4.  Neglecting the one item that may save your budget roof from collapsing. Every week there are items, such as your child asking for money for his class picture or a magazine subscription, that don’t fit into any other budget category. If you don’t have a catch- all miscellaneous line item, you may end up paying for these items over time and at a high interest rate, if you have to put them on your credit card.
 
The Ultimate Budget Blooper
 
Without a doubt, the ultimate budget blooper would be to NOT have a household budget at all. Far too many individuals and families try to get by without a financial plan and then wonder why they are always coming up short when it comes to money management. The person who stated that a person without a budget is like a vehicle without a steering wheel was financially right on. In this current economic situation, take a few moments and look over your household budget and see if you have a budget blooper that needs to be turned into a budget bloomer.  Parts excerpted from The Stewpot, Volume 15, Issue #3 

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What's Happening at The Food Pantry

Well, we have finally gotten around to what happens at the food pantry on Tuesdays. As stated earlier, on Tuesday DeShayla has to make her rounds to pick up donated food from local businesses: Sheetz in Prince George, Walmart in Petersburg, and Food Lion in Colonial Heights.

Meanwhile back at the food pantry, items that have been refrigerated have to be taken out and placed in the room with all of the items that were bagged on Monday. Cones have to be placed in the parking lot so people coming to pick up food can stay in a line and be served in the order they arrive.

The food pantry opens at 10:00 a.m., so volunteers gather together and prayer is said. They are now ready to serve the public and provide much needed food for the families in the community.

DeShayla, or one of the volunteers she has designated, has to go out and register the people in the cars. A number is then given to each family that is requesting assistance. The list is then taken inside and a worker takes a shopping cart, places a number on it with the number of people in each household. If they qualify for USDA food, then USDA food is placed into the cart and the cart is pushed into the hall for pickup by volunteers who take it into the room with the fresh produce and bagged items. If the family is not qualified for USDA food, then the cart is just pushed into the hall for pickup by volunteers. Items that were bagged on Monday and fresh produce are then placed into the carts based upon the number of people designated as being in the family. The cart is then pushed into the parking lot, and given to the family who has that number. The card with the number on it is taken from the family, and is kept to be used the following week. This continues until 12:30 p.m. or until all of the families have received their food. Some days the food gets very short so if there are a lot of families that day and they were the last to register, they do not receive as much as the first ones. Sometimes there are over eighty thankful families for the assistance they receive.

Tuesdays is also the day boxes for the senior citizens are picked up by the Sheriff’s Department for delivery to them.  After everyone has been served, left-over food that will last until another week has to be placed back into the refrigerators, cones have to be taken up, and cleanup as necessary.

Usually on Tuesdays, someone has been in the kitchen preparing a bite of food for the hungry workers if they would like something to eat before they leave.
If you have some time to spare on a Monday or Tuesday mornings your help would be appreciated no matter what length of time.

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Meet Our Member:  Todd Woodley

Todd was born in Richmond, VA in MCV hospital on October 25, 1987. From birth until the age of about five he was raised in the Dinwiddie County area which is when his mother, his sister and he moved to Petersburg. Since his birthday was after school started, he didn’t start kindergarten until he was almost six. At this point, he was enrolled into Robert A. Lewis. He attended R.A.Lewis through his 6th grade year. Then for his 7th grade year he attended Richmond Academy and returned to R.A.Lewis for his 8th grade year.  He doesn’t recall why he went to Richmond Academy for that year, but it was a good experience. During that time, he made a lot of friends, went on ski trips, and played basketball for the Richmond Academy basketball team. Since R.A.Lewis only went to the 8th grade, once he graduated from there, he went to SVA.  However, his time there was brief. By this time his family had moved to Amelia County as his mother felt the city was dangerous and country living was safer. So, he finished high school at Amelia County High School.

 For the majority of his childhood his mother was a single parent so things were hard and they struggled. When Todd was seven, he started working to help his mom out by cutting grass, raking leaves and anything else he could do to earn a buck.  He started working for Richard Bendall whenever he didn’t have school but between Mr. Bendall traveling so much, he didn’t have enough work to keep him busy so Todd would work for Richard’s brother Joe as well. By the time Todd was eleven he started work for Joe Wayner aka Papa Joe who always had something for him to do. Todd learned a lot from him and he is very grateful for him and he also misses him very much.

In 2007, after he finished high school, he joined the US Army at the age of 19; this is also when his son was born. His son was part of the reason he joined the military because even though he was working he didn’t have any benefits. After three years in the military, he deployed to Iraq. While in Iraq he met civilian contractors who had similar jobs as the soldiers but made ALOT more money. So, at that point he made the decision that once his deployment was over, he would exit the military and go back overseas as a contractor. However, once he came home and separated from the Army in 2011, things didn’t go as he had planned.  He ended up enrolling in and attending college at ECPI University and obtaining his Bachelor’s Degree in Computer Science from 2011-2015.  

He has worked several jobs from fast food to retail to owning his own lawn care business; but when Covid came, he decided to shut it down for several reasons. Todd has worked for the Virginia Department of Taxation in Richmond since 2016 and is a Senior Tax Examiner.

Todd states that the biggest change in his lifetime is the cell phone.  As a kid – no cell phone, but as a teenager they changed from basic cell phones to a computer-like device, and now smartphones, where you can use GPS or gain instant access to unlimited knowledge via the internet.  

Even though Todd was raised in the church he never really left the church.  When returning from the military it took him some time to adjust and then he started studying the Bible.

Todd loves to travel but says that he just doesn’t have the time right now for it.  He also likes to fish but that time is limited too. He loves basketball and studying the word.  His favorite Bible verse is James 1:5: “If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.” .  

Todd serves his church as a deacon and says that although his life has been challenging, he knows God has been with him every step of the way and Jeremiah 1:5 says He knew us before we were formed in the belly.  So, Todd is thankful He gave him life and he is also thankful to be an Adventist.

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Vegetarian Delight

 Faith’s Granola

 
  8   c. rolled oats
  2   c. shredded coconut
  2   c. wheat germ
  1/2 c. oat bran (optional)
  1/2 c. wheat bran (optional)
  1/2   c. flax seed
  2/3 c. chopped almonds
  1   c. chopped walnuts
  1   c. sesame seeds
  1 c. whole wheat flour
 
Mix together the following items and add to the dry ingredients:
  1 c. honey
  1 c. tahini
  1 t. vanilla
 
Bake on cookie sheets @ 325 degrees for about 15 minutes – or until lightly browned.  (stir often)
 
Add after baking:   2   c. chopped dates and   2   c. raisins
 

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Based on a True Story

About 20 years ago, a new family came to the Petersburg Seventh-day Adventist Church (PSDA). They had made a move from the West Coast and moved into Dinwiddie. After visiting several churches, they chose Petersburg. At the time, there were a few families with children similar in age. This was part of the appeal.

Being a kindergarten teacher with no assistant, finding someone willing to fill in was difficult. It didn’t take long to realize that this newcomer was “good people”. When my husband planned a family outing for Sabbath, she was the one I looked for to ask about taking my place. The only thing was, when I looked for her to ask, she wasn’t at church. When I saw her again, she explained that she had simply visited another church. However, she made a comment that I still remember. She said that she felt if she missed church for only two or three Sabbaths, that no one would miss or remember her. No one would miss her!?! This struck me as so sad: I vehemently disagreed. I told her that I would miss her, would call or text, try to visit to check on her. So would others. This is the PSDA Church In the South, everyone is considered family around here.

I can’t help but think most would have the same knee-jerk reaction to such a statement. But if we are honest with ourselves, how true was my reaction? How true is it for you? Since then, I’ve personally seen the truth in her statement. It doesn’t take long for a missing member to become out of sight, out of mind. This especially happens with our elderly who are sick and unable to get to church. My grandmother had Alzheimer’s. When her brain betrayed her and her body began to fail her, she couldn’t go to the church that had been her family most of her life. She was one of the founding members of the PSDA church. During her last couple of years at home, only two from her church family visited – neither was the pastor.

The same scenario played out again in my family, this time with my parents. My mother has been a member of the PSDA church for 47 years, most of which she taught Cradle Roll. She’s participated in everything from potluck duty, women’s ministry, head deaconess to working at the food pantry. My father, although not a church member, had been supportive and worked right along at the church. He was there whenever the church school received tractor trailers to be unloaded – for their orange program. Once mom retired and started working at the food pantry, so did my dad. He loaned his truck for trips to Richmond. He even showed up to unload at times that Mama couldn’t. When his body failed him, my mom was by his side, taking care of him. They made it to church only two times since Thanksgiving 2022. They had one or two faithful visitors. But where was their church family? Where was the pastor? Think this couldn’t happen to you? I pray that you are the exception. However, to my dear friend, I apologize. You were right, and I was wrong. To anyone who has slipped through the cracks and feels like they haven’t been missed, I beg for your forgiveness. It was never my intention to take your presence for granted. —Submitted by Becky Hayes
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Please continue to submit articles.  They are appreciated and enjoyed.  It is nice to have articles on hand for the next newsletter.   Submit articles on the below topics. 

           Would like an Article From  Each Elder
            Based on a True Story
            Vegetarian Delight

Please place them in a sealed envelope and put them in the Deacon’s Room in the mail tray labelled “NEWSLETTER ARTICLES” or give them to me.  

Thanks in advance for your help.
Mary Conner 

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